Blog post #377 of 365
"You only live once. False: You live every day. You only die once." Channing
"Truth is eternal so it can never be old or new." Matt Walsh
http://themattwalshblog.com/2013/11/09/abstinence-is-unrealistic-and-old-fashioned/
"Truth never grows old, and if you believe in it and try to live by it, you will be in some ways - the only ways that matter - the youngest, freshest, most energetic rebel on the block!" More Matt
"Casual sex is a lie... that rests on lies and breeds lies and turns people into liars." More Matt
"When following a dream one may falter but the only way to fail is to give up." Dracula
"Turbulance so strong I was tossed about like a hoodrat at a block party." Anonymous
"Parents who are afraid to put their foot down usually have kids who step on their toes." Ramona G
"Someday I will find the right words and they will be simple." Mozz
"You don't marry to make yourself happy you marry to make someone else happy." Seth's dad
"Selfishness demands, 'Whats in it for me?' While love asks, 'What can I give?'" Seth
"Remember that sometimes not getting what you want is a wonderful stroke of luck." Richard
"The quality of your life may be determined by what you are willing to do with the space between who you are and who you want to be!" Kerry
"Nothing you have ever been through is wasted." Debi
"One day someone will hug you so tight all of your broken pieces will stick back together." Karen D
"The only way of discovering the limits of the possible is to venture a little way past them into the impossible." A Clarke via Cortney
"You can't have happiness without hope." Bones
"Now that the world has the facilities to transmitting intelligence rapidly it is said they are having difficulty finding enough to transmit." Unknown Author via Mitch J
"Someday everything will make perfect sense. So, for now, laugh at the confusion, smile through the tears, and keep reminding yourself that everything happens for a reason." Stephanie L
"If your actions do not prove the truth of your words, then your words are nothing more than lies! Just saying!!" Kerry H
"My track record for getting through bad days so far is 100%, and I think that is pretty good." Me
"You are free to choose but you are not free from the consequences of your choices." Joyce
"If you live off the compliments of others you will die by their criticism." Jessica L
"Forgiveness is about the act not the individual." Me
"Never look down on anybody, unless you're helping them up" Stephanie P
"Sometimes the best thing to say is nothing" Kid President
"It's okay to disagree but it isn't okay to be mean." KP
"If you're not thinking of something nice to say you aren't thinking hard enough." KP
"If you have the power to make someone happy, do it. We need more of that in the world today." Sara K
"It's my story and it matters!" Melanie's nephew
"It matters not what someone is born, but what they grow to be." Albus D
"My world really is made up of many little moments." Me
"When you change the way you look at things the things you look at change." Jimbo
"I am human therefore I make mistakes." Leanna Kay
"...who would hunt me down like a coyote on a kangaroo rat in Mojave if I mentioned her name." Karenism
"It is easier to learn from a mistake if you own it. You can't learn anything from denial." Me
"Simply be the qualities you seek in others." Kerry
"Life is full of nos, but one yes can change everything." Me
"I see/hear a lot or talk/discussion about equal rights, but never any talk about the equal responsibility that most assuredly accompanies that right. If you are going to be honest, your rights will NEVER be equal if you do not bear the responsibility. Interestingly how the RIGHTS are either granted by God or in some cases granted/protected by government, but the whole RESPONSIBILITY part seems to be voluntary." Spencer H
"Thanksgiving is an annual reminder that all human beings walk the same road, and that they need to rely on God. It is a reminder that the nation's heritage draws it's strength from gratitude and humility, not selfishness and greed." Deseret News
"Whereas it is the duty of all nations to acknowledge the providence of Almighty God, to obey His will, to be grateful for His benefits, and humbly to implore His protection and favor. George Washington
"Be careful what you say and do, it isn't alwyas just about you. Cary H
"May we remember the goodness in our lives, care about what matters, and work to increase the kindness and tolerance in the world." Gary W
"If a man has to constantly say he is king, he is clearly not ruling anything." Aj Grier
"I believe that opportunity looks a lot like hard work." Ashton K 2014 Teen Choice Awards
"The sexiest thing in the entire world is being smart" Ashton K
"Build a life, don't live one, build one." Ashton K
"...working hard and being thoughtful and generous and smart - it's a path to a better life." Ashton K
"There's an entitlement that is starting to emerge that I think is unhealthy for people and unhealthy for our country." Ashton K
"Perhaps it is really as easy as removing from our eyes the scales of judgement and indifference so we can see once again with the pure and perfect vision of a child." Tara Starling https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10202886311219181&set=a.1900812360398.2117368.1244363054&type=1&theater
Exerpt from Jimmy Stewart's A Dog Named Beau
"He would wake up at night
and he would have this fear
Of the dark, of life and lots of things,
And he'd be glad to have me near
And now he's dead.
And there are nights when I think I feel him
Climb up on our bed and lie between us,
And I would pat his head.
And there are nights when I think I feel his stare
And I reach out my hand to stroke his hair,
But he isn't there.
Oh how I wish that wasn't so,
I'll always love a dog named Beau."
Saturday, November 30, 2013
Friday, November 29, 2013
Sigh
Blog post #376 of 365
One more day of medication every 4.8 to 5 hours. I want an eight hour night of sleep. Something tells me that isn't going to happen. Sigh...
One more day of medication every 4.8 to 5 hours. I want an eight hour night of sleep. Something tells me that isn't going to happen. Sigh...
Thursday, November 28, 2013
Traffic
Blog post #374 of 365
I figured with the gratitude posts going on (next installment in two days) and my personal family celebration on hold I would just post what is on my mind. So here goes.
Most traffic can be avoided. Ge earlier or schedule between traffic hours.
Well two days ago I found out how stupid traffic really is. They have a new toll/carpool lane. Long story short you can pop in for a fee or you can haul around two friends and drive in a special lane all to yourself. Okay I guess that is a way to avoid traffic to a certain extent but I'd have a hard trying to entice people to ride with me into LA.
Back to stupid traffic. That dumb carpool lane have very few openings and so people who live between them are not likely to pay a toll to avoid a little stretch of traffic filling up the remaining lanes. Because it only opens up rarely when it does those drivers trying to get on or off force their way into an already overstuffed freeway. When I was approaching the break in the lane traffic slowed down more than 30 miles per hour. I checked! It was 33 to be exact!
I have known for years that people will slow down to look at an accident which slows the next driver and the next. People love gore. They watch boxing, hockey and car races for similar reasons. Two days ago I discovered it doesn't even have to be a wreck. They see the lights and slow to look. Why? There is no blood or carnage... Again we slowed 30 miles per hour. We passed the pulled over driver and instantly the speeds went up 30 miles or more. There were some definitely some speeders with me.
Traffic, I'm not a fan.
I figured with the gratitude posts going on (next installment in two days) and my personal family celebration on hold I would just post what is on my mind. So here goes.
Most traffic can be avoided. Ge earlier or schedule between traffic hours.
Well two days ago I found out how stupid traffic really is. They have a new toll/carpool lane. Long story short you can pop in for a fee or you can haul around two friends and drive in a special lane all to yourself. Okay I guess that is a way to avoid traffic to a certain extent but I'd have a hard trying to entice people to ride with me into LA.
Back to stupid traffic. That dumb carpool lane have very few openings and so people who live between them are not likely to pay a toll to avoid a little stretch of traffic filling up the remaining lanes. Because it only opens up rarely when it does those drivers trying to get on or off force their way into an already overstuffed freeway. When I was approaching the break in the lane traffic slowed down more than 30 miles per hour. I checked! It was 33 to be exact!
I have known for years that people will slow down to look at an accident which slows the next driver and the next. People love gore. They watch boxing, hockey and car races for similar reasons. Two days ago I discovered it doesn't even have to be a wreck. They see the lights and slow to look. Why? There is no blood or carnage... Again we slowed 30 miles per hour. We passed the pulled over driver and instantly the speeds went up 30 miles or more. There were some definitely some speeders with me.
Traffic, I'm not a fan.
Wednesday, November 27, 2013
Mom, Mom, Mom, Mom, Until Your Ears Bleed
Blog post #373 of 365
Really mom just give him a moment. The longer you don't give him a moment the more moments he tries to demand! When I hear kids doing the mom, mom, mom thing I want to pick up their kid and give them an hour of undivided, loving attention but then I fear that will just make it worse!
Then there is the kid who wants his way. Wants his way no matter what! Will ask a million and a half times if that is what it takes to get it or get discouraged. I never liked the idea of discouraging kids.
I was watching a lawyer show ans was intrigued by the objection, asked and answered. Meaning the lawyer is going from a different angle or using semantics to ask the question twice. I had a son like that. I always thought he would be a good lawyer because he could ask the same question ten different ways. I always responded with already answered. He knew this meant I was aware of his tactics and he knew the answer.
When I was preparing to write this. (Yes I do prepare. Research stuff now and again.) I looked up asked and answered to make sure I knew what the lawyers were objecting to. I was right by the way.) I came across a parenting site www.positiveparentingsolutions.com it used a similar approach that I did 23 years ago. Mine when like this.
After he would ask a second time I would say, "I have heard this question. then restate his original question so he positively knew I was listening to his request."
I would then ask him if I had answered that question.
He usually try to tell me it was somehow different to which I would say, "Already answered." He would stop in his tracks every time. He might try again many hours or a day or two later but all I needed to say was already answered.
The parenting site was a little more in depth. It said the parent should ask the child if her or she looked like the kind of person who would change his or her mind if they asked over and over again? My kids were smarter than that. They would say maybe I'll just have to keep trying to find out. I would never have allowed that! However I do like asked and answered over my already answered because it acknowledges the child's participation in the process.
What I'm getting at is please stop your kids from nagging you. Develop a routine for the second time they ask the question. Validate that they asked but please do not become the parent who ignores their child. It drives the rest of us bonkers!!!
Really mom just give him a moment. The longer you don't give him a moment the more moments he tries to demand! When I hear kids doing the mom, mom, mom thing I want to pick up their kid and give them an hour of undivided, loving attention but then I fear that will just make it worse!
Then there is the kid who wants his way. Wants his way no matter what! Will ask a million and a half times if that is what it takes to get it or get discouraged. I never liked the idea of discouraging kids.
I was watching a lawyer show ans was intrigued by the objection, asked and answered. Meaning the lawyer is going from a different angle or using semantics to ask the question twice. I had a son like that. I always thought he would be a good lawyer because he could ask the same question ten different ways. I always responded with already answered. He knew this meant I was aware of his tactics and he knew the answer.
When I was preparing to write this. (Yes I do prepare. Research stuff now and again.) I looked up asked and answered to make sure I knew what the lawyers were objecting to. I was right by the way.) I came across a parenting site www.positiveparentingsolutions.com it used a similar approach that I did 23 years ago. Mine when like this.
After he would ask a second time I would say, "I have heard this question. then restate his original question so he positively knew I was listening to his request."
I would then ask him if I had answered that question.
He usually try to tell me it was somehow different to which I would say, "Already answered." He would stop in his tracks every time. He might try again many hours or a day or two later but all I needed to say was already answered.
The parenting site was a little more in depth. It said the parent should ask the child if her or she looked like the kind of person who would change his or her mind if they asked over and over again? My kids were smarter than that. They would say maybe I'll just have to keep trying to find out. I would never have allowed that! However I do like asked and answered over my already answered because it acknowledges the child's participation in the process.
What I'm getting at is please stop your kids from nagging you. Develop a routine for the second time they ask the question. Validate that they asked but please do not become the parent who ignores their child. It drives the rest of us bonkers!!!
Tuesday, November 26, 2013
Irrational and Real Fear
Blog post #373 of 365
I know fear. I grew up in a house filled with constant fear. (Abusive parent, explanation for another day maybe.)
True fear is the is to worry about something you expect to happen. Then there is the fear of something that might happen. Big difference but sometimes you have no idea if or when something bad might happen. Real fear is knowing nothing much sets him off and at any time he could go in a rage. That is real fear. No if, just when. No why, just because.
Irrational fear is real. I've had that too. Like when my daughter who was born with a heart defect. They told me if she made it to her second birthday she would likely make it to adulthood. It felt like I was holding my breath for two years. That was real fear. But the irrational part came in when I decided to delay getting my tubes tied because I knew in my heart if I did my daughter would surly die. That isn't rational. But I convinced myself it was true. Irrational fear is when I had an accident in the grocery store and for a year could not go up and down the isle. I would break our it a cold sweat, couldn't catch my breath and sometimes stood paralyzed in one spot for several minutes at a time completely unable to move.
Now I have a real reason to have real fear.
Food allergies make eating outside my home difficult. I always have to ask how stuff is prepared and in what. What is in it and more. Pot lucks at church are a nightmare, dinner at a friends is usually a little easier because I tell them ahead of time what I have allergies to. But then there is the I just don't care about your allergies people who make whatever and then get mad when I can't eat.
I have also developed allergies to smells. Oil, grass, flowers, perfumes, potpourri, air fresheners, creams, lotions, soaps, hair sprays, cologne, topical medications and more. I take tons of medications. I don't go where I'll find lots of people and I wear a mask when it gets bad.
Here is where the irrational part comes in. I am getting to the point where I dread leaving home. I avoid public restrooms because they nearly always have an air freshener. Lord help me but I feel like a pariah.
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I know fear. I grew up in a house filled with constant fear. (Abusive parent, explanation for another day maybe.)
True fear is the is to worry about something you expect to happen. Then there is the fear of something that might happen. Big difference but sometimes you have no idea if or when something bad might happen. Real fear is knowing nothing much sets him off and at any time he could go in a rage. That is real fear. No if, just when. No why, just because.
Irrational fear is real. I've had that too. Like when my daughter who was born with a heart defect. They told me if she made it to her second birthday she would likely make it to adulthood. It felt like I was holding my breath for two years. That was real fear. But the irrational part came in when I decided to delay getting my tubes tied because I knew in my heart if I did my daughter would surly die. That isn't rational. But I convinced myself it was true. Irrational fear is when I had an accident in the grocery store and for a year could not go up and down the isle. I would break our it a cold sweat, couldn't catch my breath and sometimes stood paralyzed in one spot for several minutes at a time completely unable to move.
Now I have a real reason to have real fear.
Food allergies make eating outside my home difficult. I always have to ask how stuff is prepared and in what. What is in it and more. Pot lucks at church are a nightmare, dinner at a friends is usually a little easier because I tell them ahead of time what I have allergies to. But then there is the I just don't care about your allergies people who make whatever and then get mad when I can't eat.
I have also developed allergies to smells. Oil, grass, flowers, perfumes, potpourri, air fresheners, creams, lotions, soaps, hair sprays, cologne, topical medications and more. I take tons of medications. I don't go where I'll find lots of people and I wear a mask when it gets bad.
Here is where the irrational part comes in. I am getting to the point where I dread leaving home. I avoid public restrooms because they nearly always have an air freshener. Lord help me but I feel like a pariah.
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Monday, November 25, 2013
I've Been Off A Little This Week
Blog post # 372 of 365
I started and even completed several blog posts over the last seven days. Many of which were scheduled to post. But I never actually posted them until tonight. Some I reworked. Some I finished today. This one was started and finished tonight.
I was preparing for a huge crowd Saturday and we know how that all turned out. Also this every five hour thing with medication that makes me feel tired but doesn't help me sleep hasn't helped much. No excuse is a good one I guess.
To the few who read every post or nearly every post thank you for your patience and I apologize for they delay. I shall try harder.
I started and even completed several blog posts over the last seven days. Many of which were scheduled to post. But I never actually posted them until tonight. Some I reworked. Some I finished today. This one was started and finished tonight.
I was preparing for a huge crowd Saturday and we know how that all turned out. Also this every five hour thing with medication that makes me feel tired but doesn't help me sleep hasn't helped much. No excuse is a good one I guess.
To the few who read every post or nearly every post thank you for your patience and I apologize for they delay. I shall try harder.
Sunday, November 24, 2013
Contagious?
Blog post #371 of 365
How do you know when you are no longer contagious? From what the doctor said I need to wash my hands often and not let anyone touch my head.
Really not much information. But then again I was in a hurry to go to the eye specialist, to wait five hours...
So I looked it up. It said what the doctor said but also said to cover the affected area. So I have had on a bandanna or hat and staying away from the immune suppressed or old folk. Mom had it so she can't get it from me, yay! It says once the spots scab over (like chicken pox) I would be less or no longer contagious depending on which site you believe. But they all said the same medication was needed which I am taking and to finish it. One says to be "cautious" until the medication is finished.
I don't have scabs. I have dry patches. I have areas that burn still but it says that could last for months and in some cases never go away. Ugh!
But how contagious am I? Or am I at all...
How do you know when you are no longer contagious? From what the doctor said I need to wash my hands often and not let anyone touch my head.
Really not much information. But then again I was in a hurry to go to the eye specialist, to wait five hours...
So I looked it up. It said what the doctor said but also said to cover the affected area. So I have had on a bandanna or hat and staying away from the immune suppressed or old folk. Mom had it so she can't get it from me, yay! It says once the spots scab over (like chicken pox) I would be less or no longer contagious depending on which site you believe. But they all said the same medication was needed which I am taking and to finish it. One says to be "cautious" until the medication is finished.
I don't have scabs. I have dry patches. I have areas that burn still but it says that could last for months and in some cases never go away. Ugh!
But how contagious am I? Or am I at all...
Saturday, November 23, 2013
I Don't Want To Talk About It
Blog post #370 of 365
I don't want to talk about it! You read it all yesterday. Who wants to make turkey without family or friends over to eat it with?
Okay the food was good but it was pretty lonely!
I don't want to talk about it! You read it all yesterday. Who wants to make turkey without family or friends over to eat it with?
Okay the food was good but it was pretty lonely!
Friday, November 22, 2013
A Wrench In The Plans
Blog post #369 of 365
Thursday was a bust! And tomorrow will be worse!!!
Saturday we were having our usual family tradition of early Thanksgiving. BUT NOT THIS YEAR!!!
Yesterday I went for a routine doctor visit. However I had a few complaints and got diagnosed with Shingles. Really, isn't that what old people get? I know people it their twenties who have gotten it but I was not ready for a contagious diagnosis two days before the big family gathering. No really usually more than thirty people if everyone shows up!
After the regularly scheduled appointment I was sent to an eye doctor. A specialist since the shingles infection seemed to begin in my eye. It took 6 hours. Not joking. When I got home I made dinner. Then my contact began to feel irritated more than it did when I returned it to my eye after the dilation and three other drops they put in. I couldn't get a grip on it. No really it was not coming out. Then I started rubbing my eye. It was irritated. When then bunched up the contact and became stuck under the lid. I couldn't get it out. My eye was more swollen and several more OTC eye drops later my eye hurt like crazy. As soon as my son got home it was off to the ER. Like my day wasn't bad enough already.
So every 4.8 hours I take shingles medication and 3 times a day I put in antibiotic eye drops. Ugh.
Today I texted everyone with apologies for the late cancellation. They all took it very nicely.
Thursday was a bust! And tomorrow will be worse!!!
Saturday we were having our usual family tradition of early Thanksgiving. BUT NOT THIS YEAR!!!
Yesterday I went for a routine doctor visit. However I had a few complaints and got diagnosed with Shingles. Really, isn't that what old people get? I know people it their twenties who have gotten it but I was not ready for a contagious diagnosis two days before the big family gathering. No really usually more than thirty people if everyone shows up!
After the regularly scheduled appointment I was sent to an eye doctor. A specialist since the shingles infection seemed to begin in my eye. It took 6 hours. Not joking. When I got home I made dinner. Then my contact began to feel irritated more than it did when I returned it to my eye after the dilation and three other drops they put in. I couldn't get a grip on it. No really it was not coming out. Then I started rubbing my eye. It was irritated. When then bunched up the contact and became stuck under the lid. I couldn't get it out. My eye was more swollen and several more OTC eye drops later my eye hurt like crazy. As soon as my son got home it was off to the ER. Like my day wasn't bad enough already.
So every 4.8 hours I take shingles medication and 3 times a day I put in antibiotic eye drops. Ugh.
Today I texted everyone with apologies for the late cancellation. They all took it very nicely.
Thursday, November 21, 2013
Gramie Ham Recipe
Blog post #368 of 365
With the holidays coming up I a giving up a family tradition. Although I might have given this one up sometime earlier.
My mom, before she became a diabetic, made a ham every Easter and sometimes for Thanksgiving. She made it by taste and frankly should never do that again because it could bring on a diabetic coma. After much trial and error I have a decent replica of Gramie ham. It is a tangy sweet ham.
What you'll need:
Baking dish with a lid or use foil, measuring cup, spoon
pre-sliced ham
1/2 cup frozen orange juice concentrate thawed
1/2 honey
1/2 spicy brown mustard
about 1 liter ginger ale (not diet)
What you'll do:
Preheat oven to 350 degrees
Mix honey, oj, and mustard in a small bowl until well blended. In a baking dish (I use and 9X9 but it depends on how much ham you are making, more ham will require more mixture mentioned prior) layer your ham spooning a little of the mustard/oj/honey mixture between each layer. Pour any remaining mixture over the top. Pour ginger ale over the prepared ham. (size of the pan, amount of ham will all be a factor in how much ginger ale you will use. Cover your baking dish with foil or a lid. Put it in the oven and bake covered for an hour. Serve hot.
We always had this with a big feast usually with some other meats involved. However my son loved this dish. I usually serve it with rice and vegetables on the side.
With the holidays coming up I a giving up a family tradition. Although I might have given this one up sometime earlier.
My mom, before she became a diabetic, made a ham every Easter and sometimes for Thanksgiving. She made it by taste and frankly should never do that again because it could bring on a diabetic coma. After much trial and error I have a decent replica of Gramie ham. It is a tangy sweet ham.
What you'll need:
Baking dish with a lid or use foil, measuring cup, spoon
pre-sliced ham
1/2 cup frozen orange juice concentrate thawed
1/2 honey
1/2 spicy brown mustard
about 1 liter ginger ale (not diet)
What you'll do:
Preheat oven to 350 degrees
Mix honey, oj, and mustard in a small bowl until well blended. In a baking dish (I use and 9X9 but it depends on how much ham you are making, more ham will require more mixture mentioned prior) layer your ham spooning a little of the mustard/oj/honey mixture between each layer. Pour any remaining mixture over the top. Pour ginger ale over the prepared ham. (size of the pan, amount of ham will all be a factor in how much ginger ale you will use. Cover your baking dish with foil or a lid. Put it in the oven and bake covered for an hour. Serve hot.
We always had this with a big feast usually with some other meats involved. However my son loved this dish. I usually serve it with rice and vegetables on the side.
Wednesday, November 20, 2013
Early Childhood Education
Blog post #367 of 365
The debate lives on.
People have debated education as long as people have been educated. At first it was only for the people who worked for the rich. Then only for the rich themselves. Then for boys and privileged girls. Eventually everyone got a chance to go to school.You'd probably be surprised just how recent (around the late 1880's in most places) that new fangled idea came about but I for one am glad it did.
In the early days of education the wee ones were taught at home. Formal education for young kids didn't begin until kids were ready. Read able to sit for 4 to 6 hours in a chair. So usually after potty training and well into language development and social skills. Sometimes way into social skills. Pre-formal education skills were learned in the home, at church and in the community. Yes, back then most towns had a church or more that every 'civilized' person attended.
The question most recently debated is: Which is better for early childhood education, play or academics?
As a child of the 60's my early childhood education (Kindergarten) consisted of a bunch of play where we learned to get along with others, follow directions. We had light academics where we learned to identify some shapes, colors, numbers, the alphabet. We also learned about important people like firemen & policemen and how to identify our names. (I do not remember being read to but we sang songs.) We ate a snack, usually a graham cracker and white milk (not sweetened 'strawberry' or chocolate milk for us) and had a good long nap in that half day of school.
I went to school to become an educator. While in school I spent a year working the the early childhood education department. Part of that year I help work on the department's accreditation application. It was interesting. I remember they had a really broad approach to teaching early childhood educators. Sadly most States and districts adopt one idea of how early childhood education should be offered. It is still a half a day in most cases but now with way more academics and a lot less play. Oh and don't get me wrong I am glad 2/3 of their time isn't spent napping. I hear some still have a rest time. Really nearly fifty years later and you spend a big chuck of teaching time taking a rest?
I believe the earlier child is exposed to education the better. For many Mom and dad should be the first teachers. But this is usually not the case either. Parents work and parents don't always know to work with their kids at all. Even something as simple as identifying body parts. Who doesn't play where's your (fill in a body part) with their kids? Or helping them identify colors and shapes when they are one, two and three.
To be honest a few kids are ready to read and write at two and three. They are ready to do simple math and write their names while others aren't ready until they are four or five. Formal school at 3 sure but be realistic a 3 hour day at 3 years old and work up to a 5 hour day for a 5 year old. Oh wait we can't do that because no district is willing to pay a kindergarten teacher for preparation time no matter how important that might be and no union is going to 'settle' for a part time kindergarten teacher contract. So the teacher spits the day with am and pm kids with their own set of challenges.
In the first year or two (if you start at 3) lots of play and a little academics thrown into the play. By the time kids are in Kindergarten they should be really ready to write letters, draw shapes, identify colors, do simple addition and subtraction (single digit for sure) and identify sight words. Learning should be a balance of play and sitting in circle time or at their desks. Lots of reading from the first day of school until they begin reading to you!
The problem you say is where is the money for early childhood education. Well to be honest it is spent on special programs for the kids who are not doing as well all though elementary school and beyond. You want kids to do their best, be their best, work smarter not harder well then give the a chance! Rant over.
The debate lives on.
People have debated education as long as people have been educated. At first it was only for the people who worked for the rich. Then only for the rich themselves. Then for boys and privileged girls. Eventually everyone got a chance to go to school.You'd probably be surprised just how recent (around the late 1880's in most places) that new fangled idea came about but I for one am glad it did.
In the early days of education the wee ones were taught at home. Formal education for young kids didn't begin until kids were ready. Read able to sit for 4 to 6 hours in a chair. So usually after potty training and well into language development and social skills. Sometimes way into social skills. Pre-formal education skills were learned in the home, at church and in the community. Yes, back then most towns had a church or more that every 'civilized' person attended.
The question most recently debated is: Which is better for early childhood education, play or academics?
As a child of the 60's my early childhood education (Kindergarten) consisted of a bunch of play where we learned to get along with others, follow directions. We had light academics where we learned to identify some shapes, colors, numbers, the alphabet. We also learned about important people like firemen & policemen and how to identify our names. (I do not remember being read to but we sang songs.) We ate a snack, usually a graham cracker and white milk (not sweetened 'strawberry' or chocolate milk for us) and had a good long nap in that half day of school.
I went to school to become an educator. While in school I spent a year working the the early childhood education department. Part of that year I help work on the department's accreditation application. It was interesting. I remember they had a really broad approach to teaching early childhood educators. Sadly most States and districts adopt one idea of how early childhood education should be offered. It is still a half a day in most cases but now with way more academics and a lot less play. Oh and don't get me wrong I am glad 2/3 of their time isn't spent napping. I hear some still have a rest time. Really nearly fifty years later and you spend a big chuck of teaching time taking a rest?
I believe the earlier child is exposed to education the better. For many Mom and dad should be the first teachers. But this is usually not the case either. Parents work and parents don't always know to work with their kids at all. Even something as simple as identifying body parts. Who doesn't play where's your (fill in a body part) with their kids? Or helping them identify colors and shapes when they are one, two and three.
To be honest a few kids are ready to read and write at two and three. They are ready to do simple math and write their names while others aren't ready until they are four or five. Formal school at 3 sure but be realistic a 3 hour day at 3 years old and work up to a 5 hour day for a 5 year old. Oh wait we can't do that because no district is willing to pay a kindergarten teacher for preparation time no matter how important that might be and no union is going to 'settle' for a part time kindergarten teacher contract. So the teacher spits the day with am and pm kids with their own set of challenges.
In the first year or two (if you start at 3) lots of play and a little academics thrown into the play. By the time kids are in Kindergarten they should be really ready to write letters, draw shapes, identify colors, do simple addition and subtraction (single digit for sure) and identify sight words. Learning should be a balance of play and sitting in circle time or at their desks. Lots of reading from the first day of school until they begin reading to you!
The problem you say is where is the money for early childhood education. Well to be honest it is spent on special programs for the kids who are not doing as well all though elementary school and beyond. You want kids to do their best, be their best, work smarter not harder well then give the a chance! Rant over.
Tuesday, November 19, 2013
My Kids are Struggling Not Lazy
Blog post #366 of 365
I have one married son living with his father in law. They pay a fair rent so don't judge, at least their roommates are caring loving people. That son works three part time jobs to support his wife and son. He is college educated and has student loans.
I have a second married son. He lives in a family home of his in laws and is going to school again full time to try to make enough money to support his little family.
I have one son who lives at home with me, goes to college and works part time.
I have one daughter working two part time jobs to support herself. She lives with her boyfriend's grandma.
I have one daughter working hard at one part time job, trying to go to school but finding it hard to attend without sufficient funds to support herself while she goes.
Recently I read that 90% of the jobs created after 2009 are part time. Most manufacturing jobs were outsourced in the 90's so it isn't like kids can just go get a job like they did in the 60's, 70's and 80's. Most jobs now require a college degree. And we wonder how is it that our kids are college educated, living in our basements (or guest rooms) with an average of $30,000 in student loans?
My kids are smart, hard working men and women who deserve better than they are getting. Not because they are lazy and want it handed to them but because they have worked hard for it. I will never blame them for the situation they are in. I will however blame many generations before them. It didn't just happen overnight. I am only one vote. But I am sure I am not the only frustrated parent watching their kids struggle.
I have one married son living with his father in law. They pay a fair rent so don't judge, at least their roommates are caring loving people. That son works three part time jobs to support his wife and son. He is college educated and has student loans.
I have a second married son. He lives in a family home of his in laws and is going to school again full time to try to make enough money to support his little family.
I have one son who lives at home with me, goes to college and works part time.
I have one daughter working two part time jobs to support herself. She lives with her boyfriend's grandma.
I have one daughter working hard at one part time job, trying to go to school but finding it hard to attend without sufficient funds to support herself while she goes.
Recently I read that 90% of the jobs created after 2009 are part time. Most manufacturing jobs were outsourced in the 90's so it isn't like kids can just go get a job like they did in the 60's, 70's and 80's. Most jobs now require a college degree. And we wonder how is it that our kids are college educated, living in our basements (or guest rooms) with an average of $30,000 in student loans?
My kids are smart, hard working men and women who deserve better than they are getting. Not because they are lazy and want it handed to them but because they have worked hard for it. I will never blame them for the situation they are in. I will however blame many generations before them. It didn't just happen overnight. I am only one vote. But I am sure I am not the only frustrated parent watching their kids struggle.
Monday, November 18, 2013
The Big 365
Blog post 365 of 365
I have officially blogged 365 times in a year. Actually the year hasn't passed yet. I blogged more than once in a day some days. I actually began December first so I will keep counting at least until then...
I would have thought however that by the time I reached the 365 mark I would somehow have felt more accomplished. Don't get me wrong there were times I wondered if I would ever reach the magical 365 point so getting here is pretty fantastic!
Anyhow I'll keep blogging and hopefully you will keep reading.
I have officially blogged 365 times in a year. Actually the year hasn't passed yet. I blogged more than once in a day some days. I actually began December first so I will keep counting at least until then...
I would have thought however that by the time I reached the 365 mark I would somehow have felt more accomplished. Don't get me wrong there were times I wondered if I would ever reach the magical 365 point so getting here is pretty fantastic!
Anyhow I'll keep blogging and hopefully you will keep reading.
Sunday, November 17, 2013
Advice to Self
Blog post #364 of 365
If I had a chance to go back and give advice to my younger self what it be? A friend posted that question on Facebook but limited the answer to two words. I have a huge number of two word answers and guess what I can't figure out which set to pick,
Would it be faith based?
Trust God.
Follow Christ.
Serve others.
Have faith.
Pray more.
I think if you did one of those you would naturally do the rest.
Would it be self aware?
Be kind.
Be brave.
Be strong.
Don't procrastinate.
They would all be good.
Or would it be wise?
Think twice.
Be smart.
Say no.
Don't smoke.
Use sunscreen.
Rest more.
Work hard.
Encouraging?
You can.
You lived.
Maybe it would be vague?
Good luck.
First instincts.
Or would it be simply?
Love more
The possibilities are endless. I'm not sure I'd take my advice. I guess I'd probably make similar mistakes no matter what the advice.
If I had a chance to go back and give advice to my younger self what it be? A friend posted that question on Facebook but limited the answer to two words. I have a huge number of two word answers and guess what I can't figure out which set to pick,
Would it be faith based?
Trust God.
Follow Christ.
Serve others.
Have faith.
Pray more.
I think if you did one of those you would naturally do the rest.
Would it be self aware?
Be kind.
Be brave.
Be strong.
Don't procrastinate.
They would all be good.
Or would it be wise?
Think twice.
Be smart.
Say no.
Don't smoke.
Use sunscreen.
Rest more.
Work hard.
Encouraging?
You can.
You lived.
Maybe it would be vague?
Good luck.
First instincts.
Or would it be simply?
Love more
The possibilities are endless. I'm not sure I'd take my advice. I guess I'd probably make similar mistakes no matter what the advice.
Saturday, November 16, 2013
Tis The Season of Gratitude 2013
Blog post #363 of 365
Every year I challenge myself to do better. A few years ago a friend on Facebook challenged me to write down a little gratitude every day through Thanksgiving week. She claimed it was hard. I decided to try through the end of the year. The next year I began November first and continued through January first. It has been five years now. This year I thought I'd post them here too and maybe expound a little. Oddly enough I feel safer that my outspoken friends will less likely to put up negative comments here. Probably because I don't promote my blog. I do it for me. If you're reading it I am grateful for that too. I'll break them up a little so I don't end up with a really long post written over two months.
November, a season of gratitude I am taking literally.
Gratitude day 1
I am so grateful for social networks. I remember when I got my first computer. I had email. I could write letters to people I hadn't seen in forever and get a response back pretty quickly. What a joy that was. Now we have social networking where we can easily communicate pretty much daily with people halfway across the world or across the house. It is amazing. The ability to see your faces no matter where you are is fantastic. I love reading your words, especially when you need and ear or make me laugh.
I am thankful for social networks.
Obviously this was written on a FB post because I can't see your face as you read this blog. That would just be creepy.
Gratitude day 2
I am grateful for photos. I am grateful for the moments of time captured through the years in photos. I am grateful for the ability to share photos on the internet, on the walls of your homes, in our mobile devices and the old school wallet sized some of us still carry. I am especially grateful to see my friends and family who are taking time to scan our histories in photos into digital media so they can be shared long after we are gone.
I am thankful for photos.
In my bedroom, one wall is completely covered in photos of people I love. In my handbag I have wallet sized photos of my grandkids because I am 'that grandma' and they are so cute. I love taking and sharing pictures, it is a part of who I am.
Gratitude day 3
I am grateful for my faith in God. I am grateful we live in a country where we have the freedom to choose our own religious beliefs or lack there of. I am grateful for the ability to gather as a group of believers and worship together. For me it is an amazing feeling. For those of you who do not have a belief in a higher power I am in no way trying to discount your beliefs.
I am grateful for my faith in God.
Gratitude day 4
I am grateful for freedom of choice. It is my opinion a God given right. I am grateful we live in a country where unless I am going to cause harm to myself or others I can do just about anything, well anything within reason anyway. I love that nobody is taking away my freedom of choice. We can't prevent others from making bad choices because if we did then some day someone might try to take away our ability to make choices both good and bad. I appreciate the difficulty that comes with such freedom but I am willing to respect your freedom in order to retain mine.
I am thankful for freedom of choice.
May we all make god choices.
Gratitude day 5
I am grateful for phones. They keep me connected to people. I can pick up a phone and instantly connect, well unless calling a government agency. I'm pretty sure most of us get our information online but once in a while getting clarification or making appointments come from a phone call. But what I enjoy most is being able to check on friends and family or getting the unexpected call. Like the occasional early morning call from my grandsons on their way to school or the random come over and play calls. Those really are the best.
I am thankful for phones.
My phone happens to be a smart phone so sometimes my information comes from online from my phone. Isn't technology wonderful! (No that was rhetorical and not an actual question!)
(I have decided to heck with fonts. I copied and pasted these and I don't want to transcribe anymore.)
Gratitude day 6
I am grateful for my mouth, my nose and breathing. Don't laugh this is serious. I have developed some rough allergies that are getting worse all of the time. Which sometimes, okay often, require I wear a mask when I'm out in public and sometimes when I'm home. I like breathing so I wear the masks. While wearing the mask few people can tell when I smile at them. I guess they think I have squinty eyes or something. I like smiling. I make the germ-a-phobes nervous and they usually take a wide berth. To be honest I'm a little amused by the germ freaks. Kids are either a little freaked out or very curious. I like kids, it bothers me that I may frighten them. Sadly I've gotten so used to wearing the masks that I'll forget I have one on. Try taking a sip of water or tasting something with a mask on. It doesn't always end well. Through all of this I have gained a lot of appreciation for the lower part of my face and the act of breathing.
I am thankful for my mouth, nose and breathing.
Breathing is exceptionally wonderful and people take it for granted every day! But not I. I am ever grateful!!
Gratitude day 7
I am grateful for the increased number of people expressing gratitude each year. When I started this just a few years back there were a few people doing it right about Thanksgiving day or Thanksgiving week but every year more and more people are joining me. Well maybe not joining me specifically but you get the idea. I am enjoying reading the gratitude posts each day. It makes my heart sing. I do love a happy heart.
I am thankful my friends are expressing their gratitude too.
I am excited that gratitude is spreading!
Gratitude day 8
I am grateful for entertainment. I appreciate a good book, play, performance, movie, comedian, artist, photographer, television etc. I Appreciate the whole process from the creators on down to the finished project. I am grateful for friends and family who entertain me as well. I'd name names but there are so many and I wouldn't want to leave anyone off. Thank you so much.
I am thankful for entertainment.
Being in pain every day of my life that I can remember I am ever grateful for the distraction. Being of the creative type I love and encourage every type of entertainment!!!
Gratitude day 10
I am grateful for unexpected things. We usually plan our lives. Plan our days. Plan our futures. Sometimes there are unexpected twists and turns. I love those unexpected things. The ones that make us think again, try harder, be flexible, and when we role with it sometimes we get to learn thing and sometimes we get to play more, enjoy more.
I am thankful for unexpected things.
Aren't surprises fun? Okay so changing one's plans isn't always idea but it isn't the worst thing either!
Gratitude day 11
I am grateful for our military men and women. All of them from the earliest to those serving today. I am grateful for all branches including Air Force, Army, Coast Guard, Marines, Navy, the reservist, and even the support staff. Special thanks to the families of these brave men and women. It isn't an easy position to wait at home an wonder if they are safe and when they might return. I am grateful to those who didn't return and to those who who cam home draped in old glory. To all of you your service is appreciated and recognized today and every day.
I am thankful for all of our service men and women.
Posted on Veterans day, kind of expected do ya think? I do believe it takes a strong person to serve and to stay behind while people we love do such a noble thing.
Gratitude day 12
I am grateful for family. I have a big family. Some I see often, while others I rarely see but I love them all the same. I value them. I value my time with them. I wish we could spend more time together but everyone is busy so for now I appreciate every moment we get to spend together.
I am thankful for family.
I love my family and Thanksgiving is next weekend for us. We do it a week before so everyone can get all of the turkey they want and can spread themselves not so thin.
Gratitude day 13
I am grateful for neighbors. When I lived in Oklahoma I learned how friendly neighbors can be. After moving back to California I decided to be that kind of neighbor. Luckily I have really great neighbors. We exchange goodies during the holidays and produce when it comes in season. We look out for each other and really help each other out.
I am thankful for my neighbors.
I really do have good neighbors and with few exceptions I have been very lucky this way.
Gratitude day 14
I am grateful to be a mom and Grandmom too. I love being a mom. The best gift I have ever been given were my kids. I love the act of mothering. I love the little milestones as well as the monumental ones I got to go through with my kids. I love that my kids love me and trust me enough to still ask for guidance even as grown ups. I have loved being the surrogate mom to my students and several friends through the years. Now I have grandies and I get to be a grandmom which is better than being a mom. My kids that are parents are already way better parents than I was which means my grandies will be even better humans than my kids, who are pretty great humans if I do say so myself! I get to love them and watch them grow. There really is no better feeling than watching your grown child being a parent!
I am thankful to be a mom and grandmom.
There is an old saying, "If I knew how much fun grandkids were I'd have had them first." Silly really because for me I wouldn't trade being a mom nor would I miss out on the watching of my children as they parent. They really are doing a spectacular job!
Gratitude day 15
I am grateful for people who go out of their way to help others. I have an amazing friends like Melanie who gathers supplies and heads to the Dominican Republic to help teach and make the lives better for orphans. (She is doing a trip in January feel free to contact her if you want help too.) Over the years my kids and I have given blood, helped move people, done yard work for neighbors, worked with developmentally delayed people, fed the homeless etc. I have recently been the recipient of doors being held open, random smiles, a kid taking my shopping cart back to the front of the store and a dessert switch rescue. None of them had to but they did and I am grateful. It is the little things that mean so much.
I am thankful for the people who go out of their way to help others.
Volunteers really make up a generous part of our workforce. Yes, pun intended. But honestly it is those every day things that I appreciate most. A kind word or deed from strangers helps buoy up my faith in humanity!
Every year I challenge myself to do better. A few years ago a friend on Facebook challenged me to write down a little gratitude every day through Thanksgiving week. She claimed it was hard. I decided to try through the end of the year. The next year I began November first and continued through January first. It has been five years now. This year I thought I'd post them here too and maybe expound a little. Oddly enough I feel safer that my outspoken friends will less likely to put up negative comments here. Probably because I don't promote my blog. I do it for me. If you're reading it I am grateful for that too. I'll break them up a little so I don't end up with a really long post written over two months.
November, a season of gratitude I am taking literally.
Gratitude day 1
I am so grateful for social networks. I remember when I got my first computer. I had email. I could write letters to people I hadn't seen in forever and get a response back pretty quickly. What a joy that was. Now we have social networking where we can easily communicate pretty much daily with people halfway across the world or across the house. It is amazing. The ability to see your faces no matter where you are is fantastic. I love reading your words, especially when you need and ear or make me laugh.
I am thankful for social networks.
Obviously this was written on a FB post because I can't see your face as you read this blog. That would just be creepy.
Gratitude day 2
I am grateful for photos. I am grateful for the moments of time captured through the years in photos. I am grateful for the ability to share photos on the internet, on the walls of your homes, in our mobile devices and the old school wallet sized some of us still carry. I am especially grateful to see my friends and family who are taking time to scan our histories in photos into digital media so they can be shared long after we are gone.
I am thankful for photos.
In my bedroom, one wall is completely covered in photos of people I love. In my handbag I have wallet sized photos of my grandkids because I am 'that grandma' and they are so cute. I love taking and sharing pictures, it is a part of who I am.
Gratitude day 3
I am grateful for my faith in God. I am grateful we live in a country where we have the freedom to choose our own religious beliefs or lack there of. I am grateful for the ability to gather as a group of believers and worship together. For me it is an amazing feeling. For those of you who do not have a belief in a higher power I am in no way trying to discount your beliefs.
I am grateful for my faith in God.
Gratitude day 4
I am grateful for freedom of choice. It is my opinion a God given right. I am grateful we live in a country where unless I am going to cause harm to myself or others I can do just about anything, well anything within reason anyway. I love that nobody is taking away my freedom of choice. We can't prevent others from making bad choices because if we did then some day someone might try to take away our ability to make choices both good and bad. I appreciate the difficulty that comes with such freedom but I am willing to respect your freedom in order to retain mine.
I am thankful for freedom of choice.
May we all make god choices.
Gratitude day 5
I am grateful for phones. They keep me connected to people. I can pick up a phone and instantly connect, well unless calling a government agency. I'm pretty sure most of us get our information online but once in a while getting clarification or making appointments come from a phone call. But what I enjoy most is being able to check on friends and family or getting the unexpected call. Like the occasional early morning call from my grandsons on their way to school or the random come over and play calls. Those really are the best.
I am thankful for phones.
My phone happens to be a smart phone so sometimes my information comes from online from my phone. Isn't technology wonderful! (No that was rhetorical and not an actual question!)
(I have decided to heck with fonts. I copied and pasted these and I don't want to transcribe anymore.)
Gratitude day 6
I am grateful for my mouth, my nose and breathing. Don't laugh this is serious. I have developed some rough allergies that are getting worse all of the time. Which sometimes, okay often, require I wear a mask when I'm out in public and sometimes when I'm home. I like breathing so I wear the masks. While wearing the mask few people can tell when I smile at them. I guess they think I have squinty eyes or something. I like smiling. I make the germ-a-phobes nervous and they usually take a wide berth. To be honest I'm a little amused by the germ freaks. Kids are either a little freaked out or very curious. I like kids, it bothers me that I may frighten them. Sadly I've gotten so used to wearing the masks that I'll forget I have one on. Try taking a sip of water or tasting something with a mask on. It doesn't always end well. Through all of this I have gained a lot of appreciation for the lower part of my face and the act of breathing.
I am thankful for my mouth, nose and breathing.
Breathing is exceptionally wonderful and people take it for granted every day! But not I. I am ever grateful!!
Gratitude day 7
I am grateful for the increased number of people expressing gratitude each year. When I started this just a few years back there were a few people doing it right about Thanksgiving day or Thanksgiving week but every year more and more people are joining me. Well maybe not joining me specifically but you get the idea. I am enjoying reading the gratitude posts each day. It makes my heart sing. I do love a happy heart.
I am thankful my friends are expressing their gratitude too.
I am excited that gratitude is spreading!
Gratitude day 8
I am grateful for entertainment. I appreciate a good book, play, performance, movie, comedian, artist, photographer, television etc. I Appreciate the whole process from the creators on down to the finished project. I am grateful for friends and family who entertain me as well. I'd name names but there are so many and I wouldn't want to leave anyone off. Thank you so much.
I am thankful for entertainment.
Being in pain every day of my life that I can remember I am ever grateful for the distraction. Being of the creative type I love and encourage every type of entertainment!!!
Gratitude day 10
I am grateful for unexpected things. We usually plan our lives. Plan our days. Plan our futures. Sometimes there are unexpected twists and turns. I love those unexpected things. The ones that make us think again, try harder, be flexible, and when we role with it sometimes we get to learn thing and sometimes we get to play more, enjoy more.
I am thankful for unexpected things.
Aren't surprises fun? Okay so changing one's plans isn't always idea but it isn't the worst thing either!
Gratitude day 11
I am grateful for our military men and women. All of them from the earliest to those serving today. I am grateful for all branches including Air Force, Army, Coast Guard, Marines, Navy, the reservist, and even the support staff. Special thanks to the families of these brave men and women. It isn't an easy position to wait at home an wonder if they are safe and when they might return. I am grateful to those who didn't return and to those who who cam home draped in old glory. To all of you your service is appreciated and recognized today and every day.
I am thankful for all of our service men and women.
Posted on Veterans day, kind of expected do ya think? I do believe it takes a strong person to serve and to stay behind while people we love do such a noble thing.
Gratitude day 12
I am grateful for family. I have a big family. Some I see often, while others I rarely see but I love them all the same. I value them. I value my time with them. I wish we could spend more time together but everyone is busy so for now I appreciate every moment we get to spend together.
I am thankful for family.
I love my family and Thanksgiving is next weekend for us. We do it a week before so everyone can get all of the turkey they want and can spread themselves not so thin.
Gratitude day 13
I am grateful for neighbors. When I lived in Oklahoma I learned how friendly neighbors can be. After moving back to California I decided to be that kind of neighbor. Luckily I have really great neighbors. We exchange goodies during the holidays and produce when it comes in season. We look out for each other and really help each other out.
I am thankful for my neighbors.
I really do have good neighbors and with few exceptions I have been very lucky this way.
Gratitude day 14
I am grateful to be a mom and Grandmom too. I love being a mom. The best gift I have ever been given were my kids. I love the act of mothering. I love the little milestones as well as the monumental ones I got to go through with my kids. I love that my kids love me and trust me enough to still ask for guidance even as grown ups. I have loved being the surrogate mom to my students and several friends through the years. Now I have grandies and I get to be a grandmom which is better than being a mom. My kids that are parents are already way better parents than I was which means my grandies will be even better humans than my kids, who are pretty great humans if I do say so myself! I get to love them and watch them grow. There really is no better feeling than watching your grown child being a parent!
I am thankful to be a mom and grandmom.
There is an old saying, "If I knew how much fun grandkids were I'd have had them first." Silly really because for me I wouldn't trade being a mom nor would I miss out on the watching of my children as they parent. They really are doing a spectacular job!
Gratitude day 15
I am grateful for people who go out of their way to help others. I have an amazing friends like Melanie who gathers supplies and heads to the Dominican Republic to help teach and make the lives better for orphans. (She is doing a trip in January feel free to contact her if you want help too.) Over the years my kids and I have given blood, helped move people, done yard work for neighbors, worked with developmentally delayed people, fed the homeless etc. I have recently been the recipient of doors being held open, random smiles, a kid taking my shopping cart back to the front of the store and a dessert switch rescue. None of them had to but they did and I am grateful. It is the little things that mean so much.
I am thankful for the people who go out of their way to help others.
Volunteers really make up a generous part of our workforce. Yes, pun intended. But honestly it is those every day things that I appreciate most. A kind word or deed from strangers helps buoy up my faith in humanity!
Friday, November 15, 2013
Endings and New Beginnings
Blog post #362 of 365
My niece had court this. She lost her kids for a bit. In the long run it turned out to be a very good thing for her and yet I'm not so sure it was a good thing for the kids. They are the ones who suffered the most. Emotionally it was rough on them. If you listened to her I'm sure she'd tell you it was harder on her.
She has some challenges, the biggest of which is not liking to be told what to do and not having the life skills to be a mom without some guidance. That is in fact how she lost her kids. I won't go into details.
There are five kids ranging in age from not yet a year to eight. They haven't had rules or boundaries. They had a father who was a criminal, albeit a lucky small time criminal who hasn't done his proper time because he wasn't caught in the act. Luckily he was caught for one deed and did a very short period of time in jail. The jail time resulted in him having a stay away order from the courts. He can't go near his ex-wife or kids for another year. Maybe she will stay away from him and their kids will hopefully not have that kind of influence in their lives anymore. After talking to her while we waited for court to begin I wouldn't bet on it.
This court date marks the end of the involvement of social workers in the life of my niece and her kids. The pressure will be off. I don't know if it that is such a good thing or not. All through these last two years she has had people looking over her shoulder making sure she follows through, having her take classes in parenting and learning how a healthy relationship looks. She says she has learned a lot. I hope she keeps applying what she learned.
Unfortunately there was an error in court today.
This court date also means a new beginning for my niece and her kids. She will have to step up on her own. I know she can do it, I am just unsure if she will.
My niece had court this. She lost her kids for a bit. In the long run it turned out to be a very good thing for her and yet I'm not so sure it was a good thing for the kids. They are the ones who suffered the most. Emotionally it was rough on them. If you listened to her I'm sure she'd tell you it was harder on her.
She has some challenges, the biggest of which is not liking to be told what to do and not having the life skills to be a mom without some guidance. That is in fact how she lost her kids. I won't go into details.
There are five kids ranging in age from not yet a year to eight. They haven't had rules or boundaries. They had a father who was a criminal, albeit a lucky small time criminal who hasn't done his proper time because he wasn't caught in the act. Luckily he was caught for one deed and did a very short period of time in jail. The jail time resulted in him having a stay away order from the courts. He can't go near his ex-wife or kids for another year. Maybe she will stay away from him and their kids will hopefully not have that kind of influence in their lives anymore. After talking to her while we waited for court to begin I wouldn't bet on it.
This court date marks the end of the involvement of social workers in the life of my niece and her kids. The pressure will be off. I don't know if it that is such a good thing or not. All through these last two years she has had people looking over her shoulder making sure she follows through, having her take classes in parenting and learning how a healthy relationship looks. She says she has learned a lot. I hope she keeps applying what she learned.
Unfortunately there was an error in court today.
This court date also means a new beginning for my niece and her kids. She will have to step up on her own. I know she can do it, I am just unsure if she will.
Thursday, November 14, 2013
If I Were a Rich Man I Mean Woman.
Blog post # 361 of 365
When I was young I learned the song If I Were A Rich Man, from the play Fiddler On The Roof in choir. I think it was 7th or 8th grade. I thought Tevye was a little strange in his rich man's wish list. I mean really? "One long staircase just going up and one even longer going down and one more leading nowhere just for show." But I figured the setting was way before my time. The other day I was listening to the radio when the Bruno Mars song Billionaire came on. There was traffic so I really listened to the song. Then It hit me I live today and this song is just silly for today. Wanting his name in lights, Mr. Mars aren't they already? Oh it has nice ideas like doing more than FEMA and all but really most of it is superficial nonsense.
So I thought about it what would I do if I were rich? I mean the really never have to think about money kind of rich.
I know this might sound a little elitist but first I'd make sure my kids were set up. Trust fund style. The grandkids too. I'd expect them to work still even if it was just helping to make the lives of others better, volunteer work or whatever they can do to make the world a better place. We always did volunteer work when they were little. I know they have it in them to continue that kind of work.
Then or maybe during that process I would purchase a camera. Don't laugh, I am the photographer of our family. I take pictures at every family gathering, share the photos online and usually actual prints with them as well. This camera however would be more than the point and shoot I use now. Nothing super fancy but something with a faster shutter speed. One that would allow me to can take great pictures at night and would have different lenses I can change to use for across the room or across the football field, at events like graduations. I want to take pictures where I can actually see the face of the person getting the diploma. I love my point and shoot for every day stuff. Maybe I could pass that on at family events to a kid or two to get their perspective. I like to think I am pretty good at taking photos. No I'd never try making a living at it but I would have so much fun taking photos. I love to showing people how I see the world. For me a camera is a necessary purchase to document my new journey.
The journey would begin with designing and building a home I love. Actually sitting with an architect to work out a plan to make my dream home. Nearly every night I dream about building homes. No weird staircases like Tevye though. I'm practical and so everything would be energy efficient and comfortable. No, I wouldn't have a mansion or even anything one might expect with a person of wealth. Think basic and simple. My home would need to act as a gathering place for family and a haven for me. Lots of usable space inside and out. A large common area with open access to a kitchen big enough for several people to work in yet cozy enough for one as well. I'd need a decent sized room to make messes and create art. Outside think fruit trees, raised gardens, walkways the grandkids could race down on foot or on bikes, skateboards or skates, a place for everyone to play catch or volleyball, a place for kids to climb and slide and a nice patio to enjoy the outside even in the rain.
While my home was being built I would take my mom to Australia to see where my sister lives. Really see why she loves it there. We'd visit my nieces while we were there but we'd also be a tourist the whole way. Imagine the camera hanging from my neck and over the In-N-Out tee shirt. Then on the way home we'd head to England to see where most of Mom's ancestors came from. We'd wander the countryside and see the big cities. After a month or so of travel we'd both be ready to go home.
I would find and rebuild (more like have someone else rebuild) some of my favorite old cars. I'm not too fond of newer vehicles, think 1960's back. After they were restored but also upgrade with more comfortable seats, seat belts, suspension, better braking systems, camouflaged stereo system, air conditioning, heat, defroster and any other tweaks they might need I'd give one to each one of my kids. Most of them would appreciate it. Maybe I could get my brother to do that for me. It is his hobby now. I love his coupe.
All of those things in motion I would start a foundation for philanthropic use. Become an advocate for children, homeless families and aged out foster kids. (Did you know foster kids are dumped out of the system at 18 or 21 if they are in school.) I have ideas that could work like an entrepreneurial program for young people. (I'd lay it all out here but I'll save that for another blog entry.) I don't really believe in handouts so much as a lift up or a way to work yourself to a better place.
There is one other thing I am passionate about that I would absolutely do. I would spend a great deal of time and energy getting our education system reformed. Right now it is broken and I have grandkids to think about. Everyone deserves a chance at a better future.
In between my work in education reform I would travel the United States. Actually as a part of it. You see I'd need to gain support from every state of the union but all parents want better for their kids. In my travels I would stop to see all of the sites I have read about, seen photos of and heard about. I'd take my own photos and enjoy every minute of it. I'd probably drag along a family member or friend on these adventures too. I don't really want to travel the world until I've seen what my own country has to offer.
Yup that is what I would do. A good start anyway.
When I was young I learned the song If I Were A Rich Man, from the play Fiddler On The Roof in choir. I think it was 7th or 8th grade. I thought Tevye was a little strange in his rich man's wish list. I mean really? "One long staircase just going up and one even longer going down and one more leading nowhere just for show." But I figured the setting was way before my time. The other day I was listening to the radio when the Bruno Mars song Billionaire came on. There was traffic so I really listened to the song. Then It hit me I live today and this song is just silly for today. Wanting his name in lights, Mr. Mars aren't they already? Oh it has nice ideas like doing more than FEMA and all but really most of it is superficial nonsense.
So I thought about it what would I do if I were rich? I mean the really never have to think about money kind of rich.
I know this might sound a little elitist but first I'd make sure my kids were set up. Trust fund style. The grandkids too. I'd expect them to work still even if it was just helping to make the lives of others better, volunteer work or whatever they can do to make the world a better place. We always did volunteer work when they were little. I know they have it in them to continue that kind of work.
Then or maybe during that process I would purchase a camera. Don't laugh, I am the photographer of our family. I take pictures at every family gathering, share the photos online and usually actual prints with them as well. This camera however would be more than the point and shoot I use now. Nothing super fancy but something with a faster shutter speed. One that would allow me to can take great pictures at night and would have different lenses I can change to use for across the room or across the football field, at events like graduations. I want to take pictures where I can actually see the face of the person getting the diploma. I love my point and shoot for every day stuff. Maybe I could pass that on at family events to a kid or two to get their perspective. I like to think I am pretty good at taking photos. No I'd never try making a living at it but I would have so much fun taking photos. I love to showing people how I see the world. For me a camera is a necessary purchase to document my new journey.
The journey would begin with designing and building a home I love. Actually sitting with an architect to work out a plan to make my dream home. Nearly every night I dream about building homes. No weird staircases like Tevye though. I'm practical and so everything would be energy efficient and comfortable. No, I wouldn't have a mansion or even anything one might expect with a person of wealth. Think basic and simple. My home would need to act as a gathering place for family and a haven for me. Lots of usable space inside and out. A large common area with open access to a kitchen big enough for several people to work in yet cozy enough for one as well. I'd need a decent sized room to make messes and create art. Outside think fruit trees, raised gardens, walkways the grandkids could race down on foot or on bikes, skateboards or skates, a place for everyone to play catch or volleyball, a place for kids to climb and slide and a nice patio to enjoy the outside even in the rain.
While my home was being built I would take my mom to Australia to see where my sister lives. Really see why she loves it there. We'd visit my nieces while we were there but we'd also be a tourist the whole way. Imagine the camera hanging from my neck and over the In-N-Out tee shirt. Then on the way home we'd head to England to see where most of Mom's ancestors came from. We'd wander the countryside and see the big cities. After a month or so of travel we'd both be ready to go home.
I would find and rebuild (more like have someone else rebuild) some of my favorite old cars. I'm not too fond of newer vehicles, think 1960's back. After they were restored but also upgrade with more comfortable seats, seat belts, suspension, better braking systems, camouflaged stereo system, air conditioning, heat, defroster and any other tweaks they might need I'd give one to each one of my kids. Most of them would appreciate it. Maybe I could get my brother to do that for me. It is his hobby now. I love his coupe.
All of those things in motion I would start a foundation for philanthropic use. Become an advocate for children, homeless families and aged out foster kids. (Did you know foster kids are dumped out of the system at 18 or 21 if they are in school.) I have ideas that could work like an entrepreneurial program for young people. (I'd lay it all out here but I'll save that for another blog entry.) I don't really believe in handouts so much as a lift up or a way to work yourself to a better place.
There is one other thing I am passionate about that I would absolutely do. I would spend a great deal of time and energy getting our education system reformed. Right now it is broken and I have grandkids to think about. Everyone deserves a chance at a better future.
In between my work in education reform I would travel the United States. Actually as a part of it. You see I'd need to gain support from every state of the union but all parents want better for their kids. In my travels I would stop to see all of the sites I have read about, seen photos of and heard about. I'd take my own photos and enjoy every minute of it. I'd probably drag along a family member or friend on these adventures too. I don't really want to travel the world until I've seen what my own country has to offer.
Yup that is what I would do. A good start anyway.
Tuesday, November 12, 2013
I Hate Guessing
Blog post #360 of 365
When something happens people guess, speculate, presume, surmise or imagine what might have transpired. When people do things; bad things, peculiar things, odd things, overly generous things, crazy things, mean things etc other people try to figure out why. I'm not just thinking about media here but people in general.
It infuriates me when people make assumptions. In some cases there is nothing to do but speculate when all of the facts are not in play. But what really bugs me is when the media speculates or worse when they have a true story and add speculation along the way twisting what is true as the story grows and is retold until it is something incredibly far from truth.
Give me the facts. I'm the curious type anyway but I want facts. Real honest facts.
There are so many partial truths and lies being spread about. It just makes me crazy that people see it in print, hear it on TV or read it online an assume the worst. Check the facts. Do your own investigation before you pass on another lie. It is so easy to do a little three second fact check. Go to the source if you can.
Sometimes I feel like I'm all alone in this. Then I remember websites like Snoops. Obviously I'm not alone or those websites wouldn't exist.
Okay rant over...
When something happens people guess, speculate, presume, surmise or imagine what might have transpired. When people do things; bad things, peculiar things, odd things, overly generous things, crazy things, mean things etc other people try to figure out why. I'm not just thinking about media here but people in general.
It infuriates me when people make assumptions. In some cases there is nothing to do but speculate when all of the facts are not in play. But what really bugs me is when the media speculates or worse when they have a true story and add speculation along the way twisting what is true as the story grows and is retold until it is something incredibly far from truth.
Give me the facts. I'm the curious type anyway but I want facts. Real honest facts.
There are so many partial truths and lies being spread about. It just makes me crazy that people see it in print, hear it on TV or read it online an assume the worst. Check the facts. Do your own investigation before you pass on another lie. It is so easy to do a little three second fact check. Go to the source if you can.
Sometimes I feel like I'm all alone in this. Then I remember websites like Snoops. Obviously I'm not alone or those websites wouldn't exist.
Okay rant over...
Monday, November 11, 2013
Equality
Blog post #359 of 365
Life isn't fair. There is no way it will ever be fair. If life isn't fair therefore it can never be perfectly equal.
Some people are born smarter than others. Some people have advantages other people will not. Some people have illnesses and others do not. We can try to make life better for everyone but to be honest even that causes controversy.
Recently a friend put a post on Facebook about her frustration when a checkout line was being held up by someone who couldn't get their benefits card to work. She vented that the person didn't look like they needed the benefits (dressed nice, clean, newer phone etc.) This started a whole debate about judgement, laziness, entitlement and fairness. It got real ugly.
There are some who feel everyone should do their part and they should but there is always a chance they can't work or just became a person in need. It may be temporary. What would happen if all of those programs shut down. Where would those kids get their next meal, where would they live? What about all of the people employed by the state and county who provide those services? There is always a bigger picture and the system isn't perfect but it is what it is for now. Maybe somewhere down the line someone will figure out a new plan of action but in the meanwhile it will be a hotbed of debate.
With all of the talk of equality I've heard through the years I never hear about accountability and responsibility. Everyone should be willing to do their part. But I don't know your life and your don't know mine. I don't have the right to judge another and neither do you.
How about we start by keeping our opinions to a facts we can back up. Lets not get mean and attack each other. That kind of equality we can do without.
Life isn't fair. There is no way it will ever be fair. If life isn't fair therefore it can never be perfectly equal.
Some people are born smarter than others. Some people have advantages other people will not. Some people have illnesses and others do not. We can try to make life better for everyone but to be honest even that causes controversy.
Recently a friend put a post on Facebook about her frustration when a checkout line was being held up by someone who couldn't get their benefits card to work. She vented that the person didn't look like they needed the benefits (dressed nice, clean, newer phone etc.) This started a whole debate about judgement, laziness, entitlement and fairness. It got real ugly.
There are some who feel everyone should do their part and they should but there is always a chance they can't work or just became a person in need. It may be temporary. What would happen if all of those programs shut down. Where would those kids get their next meal, where would they live? What about all of the people employed by the state and county who provide those services? There is always a bigger picture and the system isn't perfect but it is what it is for now. Maybe somewhere down the line someone will figure out a new plan of action but in the meanwhile it will be a hotbed of debate.
With all of the talk of equality I've heard through the years I never hear about accountability and responsibility. Everyone should be willing to do their part. But I don't know your life and your don't know mine. I don't have the right to judge another and neither do you.
How about we start by keeping our opinions to a facts we can back up. Lets not get mean and attack each other. That kind of equality we can do without.
Sunday, November 10, 2013
Pie crust
Blog post #358 of 365
I have a friend who has a pie party. A dinner party that concludes with everyone eating pies everyone invited has made and brought with them. Everyone exchanges recipes at the end of the night. Kind of like a cookie party on a pie scale.
I am not good at pies. I would love to attend if everyone made the pies before dinner and I could watch the professionals.
Anyway I keep hearing the crust is the easy part. I get the concept of making the dough and cutting it with a pastry cutter to make it flaky and delicious but alas mine is usually rock hard and not buttery or flaky or delicious.
This year I am going to try again. Maybe only once but I am going to give it a go.
So here is the recipe someone recently passed on. I haven't tried it yet but I am told it is a 'no fail' recipe. We shall see.
What I'll need:
4 cups flour
1 3/4 cups shortening (Using butter flavor but has to be shortening.)
1 tablespoon Sugar
2 teaspoons salt
1 tablespoon vinegar
1 egg
1/2 cup water
What I'll do:
Mix the wet ingredients together in a bowl. In a separate bowl mix the dry ingredients together. Use a pastry cutter or fork to combine the wet and dry ingredients until dry ingredients are moist (not wet and sticky.) Separate into five parts and chill for 15 minutes or more before rolling out and forming your crust.. Each part makes one crust. I'm told they can be shaped into balls and frozen for future use but must be allowed to defrost on their own (no microwave or oven to help it along)
Now to see if this works! I'll let you know.
I should probably figure out some great fillings too. If you have great ones pass them along. Or if you have a better easy crust let me know.
I have a friend who has a pie party. A dinner party that concludes with everyone eating pies everyone invited has made and brought with them. Everyone exchanges recipes at the end of the night. Kind of like a cookie party on a pie scale.
I am not good at pies. I would love to attend if everyone made the pies before dinner and I could watch the professionals.
Anyway I keep hearing the crust is the easy part. I get the concept of making the dough and cutting it with a pastry cutter to make it flaky and delicious but alas mine is usually rock hard and not buttery or flaky or delicious.
This year I am going to try again. Maybe only once but I am going to give it a go.
So here is the recipe someone recently passed on. I haven't tried it yet but I am told it is a 'no fail' recipe. We shall see.
What I'll need:
4 cups flour
1 3/4 cups shortening (Using butter flavor but has to be shortening.)
1 tablespoon Sugar
2 teaspoons salt
1 tablespoon vinegar
1 egg
1/2 cup water
What I'll do:
Mix the wet ingredients together in a bowl. In a separate bowl mix the dry ingredients together. Use a pastry cutter or fork to combine the wet and dry ingredients until dry ingredients are moist (not wet and sticky.) Separate into five parts and chill for 15 minutes or more before rolling out and forming your crust.. Each part makes one crust. I'm told they can be shaped into balls and frozen for future use but must be allowed to defrost on their own (no microwave or oven to help it along)
Now to see if this works! I'll let you know.
I should probably figure out some great fillings too. If you have great ones pass them along. Or if you have a better easy crust let me know.
Saturday, November 9, 2013
Style, I Have None, But I know Where You Can Find Some
Blog post # 357 of 365
I have no style. Unless comfy is a style. I am a little quirky and I love clothes but I am one of those people who has never ever been able to go into a store and purchase anything without fit issues. I've mentioned this before.
The thing in I know style. I can look at someone and completely appreciate what they were going for and is they failed or were fabulous. I have stylish friends. I do and I can prove it. Check out Natalie's blog http://www.stylestun.com and then tell me what you think. Okay some of the photos are crap (sorry Natalie) but most of them are spot on but the clothes, looks, jewelry show a personal style I feel is broad in range and beautiful for her.
Most of her looks would not look good on me but again I said I am hard to fit and have no style. At least no style of my own.
I have no style. Unless comfy is a style. I am a little quirky and I love clothes but I am one of those people who has never ever been able to go into a store and purchase anything without fit issues. I've mentioned this before.
The thing in I know style. I can look at someone and completely appreciate what they were going for and is they failed or were fabulous. I have stylish friends. I do and I can prove it. Check out Natalie's blog http://www.stylestun.com and then tell me what you think. Okay some of the photos are crap (sorry Natalie) but most of them are spot on but the clothes, looks, jewelry show a personal style I feel is broad in range and beautiful for her.
Most of her looks would not look good on me but again I said I am hard to fit and have no style. At least no style of my own.
Friday, November 8, 2013
If I'm Right Then You're Wrong
Blog post #356 of 365
Truth is we all have beliefs. Our beliefs or opinions are based on our experiences, information and a few other things.
If we come to any conclusion we must certainly be right, correct. Well if that is true someone with differing beliefs or opinions must be wrong. We both can't be right can we? We sure we can.
I know this sounds confusing but it is the truth. I've said on here before that I like to look at the whole picture. Examine things from all angles but sometimes all angles are not available to me. Or I do not know where to get the information I lack. Or I am unaware there is further information. That is where the truth is, in the whole picture. Sometimes there is more than one right answer. For instance name a city with no 'A' in it. See I'll bet you came up with several cities with no 'A' in them. If not try harder. Or how do you get there from here. Well likely there are several routes. Yes they differ in little ways but you will arrive here and that makes them all correct. Even my phone will give a walking route, driving route and a route for public transportation.
Thinking I am right I can assume those who don't think the same way are wrong. This is where the damage happens. The other day a friend told me she was called a name by a mutual friend when she stated her opinion about something based on the information she was given. My response is they were both not being very respectful. I went on to give her more information and my support. (Name calling is never good.) Attacking others because of their beliefs is very destructive. It can ruin relationships.
Relationships are important. All relationships are to some degree important. If I disagree with you it isn't the end of the world. Even if the relationship is based in love there is no rule that says we must agree in order to remain in the relationship. Imagine how small your group of friends would be if you all had to completely agree on every subject. Politics or religion alone would sink most relationships.
I believe in being informed, enlightened, smart and also being open to the possibility that I may not be fully informed and therefore possibly wrong. Even after much research I may just be trying to build a case in my favor while 'innocently' gathering more information to back my cause. Our subconscious is like that it fools us into believing we are doing the right thing even when we aren't. If we want to believe something bad enough, then we will find a way to shore up our beliefs or turn a blind eye to the facts.
My friend Karen stated my point perfectly. "If we cling to the idea that someone has to be right, which means that anyone who disagrees has to be wrong we're eroding out relationship one stupid opinion at a time." Let's stop doing that.
Truth is we all have beliefs. Our beliefs or opinions are based on our experiences, information and a few other things.
If we come to any conclusion we must certainly be right, correct. Well if that is true someone with differing beliefs or opinions must be wrong. We both can't be right can we? We sure we can.
I know this sounds confusing but it is the truth. I've said on here before that I like to look at the whole picture. Examine things from all angles but sometimes all angles are not available to me. Or I do not know where to get the information I lack. Or I am unaware there is further information. That is where the truth is, in the whole picture. Sometimes there is more than one right answer. For instance name a city with no 'A' in it. See I'll bet you came up with several cities with no 'A' in them. If not try harder. Or how do you get there from here. Well likely there are several routes. Yes they differ in little ways but you will arrive here and that makes them all correct. Even my phone will give a walking route, driving route and a route for public transportation.
Thinking I am right I can assume those who don't think the same way are wrong. This is where the damage happens. The other day a friend told me she was called a name by a mutual friend when she stated her opinion about something based on the information she was given. My response is they were both not being very respectful. I went on to give her more information and my support. (Name calling is never good.) Attacking others because of their beliefs is very destructive. It can ruin relationships.
Relationships are important. All relationships are to some degree important. If I disagree with you it isn't the end of the world. Even if the relationship is based in love there is no rule that says we must agree in order to remain in the relationship. Imagine how small your group of friends would be if you all had to completely agree on every subject. Politics or religion alone would sink most relationships.
I believe in being informed, enlightened, smart and also being open to the possibility that I may not be fully informed and therefore possibly wrong. Even after much research I may just be trying to build a case in my favor while 'innocently' gathering more information to back my cause. Our subconscious is like that it fools us into believing we are doing the right thing even when we aren't. If we want to believe something bad enough, then we will find a way to shore up our beliefs or turn a blind eye to the facts.
My friend Karen stated my point perfectly. "If we cling to the idea that someone has to be right, which means that anyone who disagrees has to be wrong we're eroding out relationship one stupid opinion at a time." Let's stop doing that.
Thursday, November 7, 2013
Adventures in the Doughnut
Blog post #355 of 365
Yesterday morning I had to go have a CT scan taken of my face of all things. No I didn't break my face or anything but I am having some major allergies issues. Apparently they had to check for a malady, malformation, polyps or filled sinuses. I had to be there at 7 am. The facility is in Los Aangeles, so I knew I had to figure in traffic, finding parking and getting to the radiology department before 7am. Lets just say traffic was interesting both coming and going and parking for the first time ever was easy. The wait time wasn't awful but there was a wait.
I discovered a few things while I was there. The first being the scanner looks like a giant doughnut. No it wasn't appetizing but it was big and doughnut shaped.
The next couple of things I noticed didn't come out well in the photos but I found them interesting.
there was a colorful band with sweeping lights that went back and fourth as the test was preformed.
Also there were green and red lights that flashed as the colorful band swished by. And someone put tiny stickers of birds inside. Not beautiful birds just like small stamps with birds on them.
Finally I always end up with new jewelry that nobody takes off while you're there and isn't easily broken off. Every department has a different color and if you are at risk for a fall you get two and they add one if you have allergies to something they might use during testing. I think the color codes are so you don't just wander the halls aimlessly. I imagine the homeless may have influenced the use of a system to control why you are there and where you should be. I passed several homeless people sleeping on benches on the way in and a few tucked into little recesses outside the building. But is means all visitors get bold new colorful bracelets.
Yesterday morning I had to go have a CT scan taken of my face of all things. No I didn't break my face or anything but I am having some major allergies issues. Apparently they had to check for a malady, malformation, polyps or filled sinuses. I had to be there at 7 am. The facility is in Los Aangeles, so I knew I had to figure in traffic, finding parking and getting to the radiology department before 7am. Lets just say traffic was interesting both coming and going and parking for the first time ever was easy. The wait time wasn't awful but there was a wait.
I discovered a few things while I was there. The first being the scanner looks like a giant doughnut. No it wasn't appetizing but it was big and doughnut shaped.
there was a colorful band with sweeping lights that went back and fourth as the test was preformed.
As I was exiting I noticed a picture of my brain but he wouldn't let me take a photo of it. I have a very cool looking brain but they said the CT was of my face. I guess my brain got in the way.
Overall the experience wasn't too bad. The test didn't take to long including the drive although there was traffic tie ups both coming and going so it could have gone much quicker. It is LA afterall. I won't get the results for a few weeks. So for now I wait! *Sigh*
Wednesday, November 6, 2013
Simple Things
Blog post #354 of 365
For me simple is better. For example in the 70's my grandfather made sure I knew how to check the fluids in my car. He also taught me how to change them along with my tires and how to push start and jump start an engine. I remember him pointing out all the of parts and the basics of how they work. I look into an engine compartment now and I wonder what everything is. Many mechanical parts have been replaced with computer parts. Very expensive and not easily fixed parts. Everything seems all squished together. Now I doubt I could fix anything where before I could change a hose, replace a radiator, rebuild a carburetor and a few other things.
When I was a kid we had a piano. I loved it. I still do. (My brother has it now.) It is very ornate and very old even back then. Our job (my sister and I) was to dust all those intricate curves and swirls. Then I grew up. If I were to own a piano now it wouldn't be intricate and swirly it would be plain and simple. Nothing fancy to spend hours dusting.
We grew up eating pasta, meat & potatoes and casseroles. I still cook simply. Oh I can make fancy sauces and what not but due to my mom's diet I have become limited on what I should make and frankly I like it better. A meal I can prep and bake or let simmer all day or one I can cook in less than 30 minutes makes me very happy. I like eating a fancy meal now and again but I prefer making the simple easy ones.
When I grew up we had fairly large houses. Four bedroom with 2 or 3 bathrooms. Today in my area they are knocking down perfectly good 4 bedroom 2 or 3 bathroom houses and replacing them with mini-mansions. Who needs a 20 foot ceiling? To me it is a firm waste of space that will require heating since hot air rises. Who will clean that huge home? Maybe it is good for the economy. Hiring a workforce of maids to care for the things. But then they have no yard so there isn't as much for a gardener to do. I still prefer just what I need and nothing more.
I remember my grandma and great grandma ironing. Big heavy irons. but those were the days before dryers that pulled out most wrinkles. I see people wearing clothes I know must be dry cleaned. Why? Give me something I can throw on and then wash and dry ready to go for the next wearing any day. Yes simple easy clothing care is what I crave.
In school kids are beginning algebra at younger and younger ages. I don't get why. They can't spell, write or read which is essential for survival but they can solve for X or Y and they will probably never use that skill in their lifetimes outside of school. I love to make things simple. Learn the basics and then go on to learn a specific skill. That is how it was done when my parents were in school and when their parents were in school.
We are a complicated society and we don't need to be. Treat others well and they will treat you well in return. Somehow we have lost that. Everyone seems to what more and better. All I want is the simple basics.
For me simple is better. For example in the 70's my grandfather made sure I knew how to check the fluids in my car. He also taught me how to change them along with my tires and how to push start and jump start an engine. I remember him pointing out all the of parts and the basics of how they work. I look into an engine compartment now and I wonder what everything is. Many mechanical parts have been replaced with computer parts. Very expensive and not easily fixed parts. Everything seems all squished together. Now I doubt I could fix anything where before I could change a hose, replace a radiator, rebuild a carburetor and a few other things.
When I was a kid we had a piano. I loved it. I still do. (My brother has it now.) It is very ornate and very old even back then. Our job (my sister and I) was to dust all those intricate curves and swirls. Then I grew up. If I were to own a piano now it wouldn't be intricate and swirly it would be plain and simple. Nothing fancy to spend hours dusting.
We grew up eating pasta, meat & potatoes and casseroles. I still cook simply. Oh I can make fancy sauces and what not but due to my mom's diet I have become limited on what I should make and frankly I like it better. A meal I can prep and bake or let simmer all day or one I can cook in less than 30 minutes makes me very happy. I like eating a fancy meal now and again but I prefer making the simple easy ones.
When I grew up we had fairly large houses. Four bedroom with 2 or 3 bathrooms. Today in my area they are knocking down perfectly good 4 bedroom 2 or 3 bathroom houses and replacing them with mini-mansions. Who needs a 20 foot ceiling? To me it is a firm waste of space that will require heating since hot air rises. Who will clean that huge home? Maybe it is good for the economy. Hiring a workforce of maids to care for the things. But then they have no yard so there isn't as much for a gardener to do. I still prefer just what I need and nothing more.
I remember my grandma and great grandma ironing. Big heavy irons. but those were the days before dryers that pulled out most wrinkles. I see people wearing clothes I know must be dry cleaned. Why? Give me something I can throw on and then wash and dry ready to go for the next wearing any day. Yes simple easy clothing care is what I crave.
In school kids are beginning algebra at younger and younger ages. I don't get why. They can't spell, write or read which is essential for survival but they can solve for X or Y and they will probably never use that skill in their lifetimes outside of school. I love to make things simple. Learn the basics and then go on to learn a specific skill. That is how it was done when my parents were in school and when their parents were in school.
We are a complicated society and we don't need to be. Treat others well and they will treat you well in return. Somehow we have lost that. Everyone seems to what more and better. All I want is the simple basics.
Tuesday, November 5, 2013
The Best
Blog post #353 of 365
I was watching a commercial and someone said only the best will do. It got me to thinking what is the best?
The dictionary says it is better than all others in quality or value or most skilled, talented, or successful or most appropriate, useful or helpful.
By definition the best could be different for the individual. I mean there isn't just one kind of anything that would be the best for everyone. Some might say Thai food is better than Chinese food or that Mexican food is better than Greek food but food like many things is subjective. I live in a very Asian neighborhood but I don't like the local Asian restaurants. I have my favorites. Korean barbecue is best in Woodland Hills, Thai is best in Palmdale, Mexican is best in Arcadia, Greek was best at my in laws. (They have both passed on and sadly I compare all Greek food to their Greek Food.) But you get my meaning.
For me the most expensive is not necessarily the best. I like to look at the whole picture. What do I get for my money? Am I paying for a brand or am I truly getting the best product available. And honestly I don't always want what society says is best. I don't want a mansion because I wouldn't want to waste the space nor would I want to clean it. I don't want a maid because I don't want strangers in my home. I don't want a fancy car or a popular car because people are more likely to steal it. I'm happy with the simple things.
I was watching a commercial and someone said only the best will do. It got me to thinking what is the best?
The dictionary says it is better than all others in quality or value or most skilled, talented, or successful or most appropriate, useful or helpful.
By definition the best could be different for the individual. I mean there isn't just one kind of anything that would be the best for everyone. Some might say Thai food is better than Chinese food or that Mexican food is better than Greek food but food like many things is subjective. I live in a very Asian neighborhood but I don't like the local Asian restaurants. I have my favorites. Korean barbecue is best in Woodland Hills, Thai is best in Palmdale, Mexican is best in Arcadia, Greek was best at my in laws. (They have both passed on and sadly I compare all Greek food to their Greek Food.) But you get my meaning.
For me the most expensive is not necessarily the best. I like to look at the whole picture. What do I get for my money? Am I paying for a brand or am I truly getting the best product available. And honestly I don't always want what society says is best. I don't want a mansion because I wouldn't want to waste the space nor would I want to clean it. I don't want a maid because I don't want strangers in my home. I don't want a fancy car or a popular car because people are more likely to steal it. I'm happy with the simple things.
Monday, November 4, 2013
Weather What Weather
Blog post #352 of 365
Over the years I have lived in a few different states. I am a California native but one of the states other than California I lived in longest was Oklahoma. It is a beautiful states with plenty to do and not a terrible place to raise kids but to be honest I hate humidity (probably those California roots) and I detest tornadoes. Even with advanced warning they really are bad news. They hit randomly and can knock out whole communities or just one house leaving grief and sadness in its wake.
One of the first things I remember anyone telling me was if you don't like the weather just wait 10 minutes. In most cases it can change that often but usually from humid to more humid or from hot to hotter or from cold to colder.
It isn't that way here. We haven't much change here in sunny California. In every season but summer we generally have cool nights and it warms up a little throughout the day. In the summer it is generally just hot and hotter and warm to hot at night.
Okay so sometimes we get rain. Like last week it rained off and on for two days. Mostly off though. I really wish I had a good camera because we had really cool rain clouds. They were a blue gray color and would literally have white puffy clouds in front or behind them. Sometimes in front and behind at the same time. Really cool.
Alright every once in a while we get morning fog or low clouds but they burn off as the sun makes its way up.
My point is most days we don't really need a weather person because we know. We live in sunny California where we have weather?
Over the years I have lived in a few different states. I am a California native but one of the states other than California I lived in longest was Oklahoma. It is a beautiful states with plenty to do and not a terrible place to raise kids but to be honest I hate humidity (probably those California roots) and I detest tornadoes. Even with advanced warning they really are bad news. They hit randomly and can knock out whole communities or just one house leaving grief and sadness in its wake.
One of the first things I remember anyone telling me was if you don't like the weather just wait 10 minutes. In most cases it can change that often but usually from humid to more humid or from hot to hotter or from cold to colder.
It isn't that way here. We haven't much change here in sunny California. In every season but summer we generally have cool nights and it warms up a little throughout the day. In the summer it is generally just hot and hotter and warm to hot at night.
Okay so sometimes we get rain. Like last week it rained off and on for two days. Mostly off though. I really wish I had a good camera because we had really cool rain clouds. They were a blue gray color and would literally have white puffy clouds in front or behind them. Sometimes in front and behind at the same time. Really cool.
Alright every once in a while we get morning fog or low clouds but they burn off as the sun makes its way up.
My point is most days we don't really need a weather person because we know. We live in sunny California where we have weather?
Sunday, November 3, 2013
Out of Context
Blog post #351 of 365
I was reading the other day when I came across the phrase, 'Birds of a feather flock together.' It was a part of the book that was trying to say people stick together. But as I remember it the phrase is from the poem.
Birds of a feather flock together as do pigs and swine,
Rats and mice will have their choice and so shall I have mine.
It isn't really talking about people sticking together. It is about species that are alike sticking together. Then I looked it up online and discovered some people thinking it was somehow racist. I don't see it at all as racist. Birds generally feel safe with other birds, as do pigs but that mice and rats because of their size difference might not want to share the same space. It is saying we have a choice of who we hang around with. I think it is more about being safe and smart.
The online talk also spoke about people always shortening the poem to fit the need of the situation. I get that. I see things taken out of context all of the time. And I imagine it could be seen as racist if it were used out of context. That is kind of why I believe in looking at the whole picture rather than focusing on a tiny word or phrase out of context.
One more example. There is a photo floating around FB of a couple of young girls, teens, holding rifles. Both are held the proper way which tells me they have been taught how to hold them. The captions talks about kids taking guns to school. On further inspection you can see an adult or two in the back who also appear to be holding guns. Without having read the caption I thought it was of photo taken at a gun event or perhaps a shooting range. Also in the background is an empty stroller. A friend shared the photo with a small small rant stating kids should never be allowed to carry guns in public. I have no idea where the photo originated but I didn't get the assumption the girls were just walking around a park alone or anything. The photo was obviously taken totally our of context.
If you took much of my writing out of context it might possibly be a problem so always let me and anyone else convey the entire message. If you look at some of my photos without knowing the background some could be taken rather poorly. Like the one of my brother and son sort of sitting way too cozy, leg thrown over a lap in a hug. But actuality it is my son goofing around with his uncle. Remembering when the kids were all young. It is much safer not jumping to conclusions. It is much kinder not to share a snippet of a conversation or captioning a photo in a way that is obviously not true.
I was reading the other day when I came across the phrase, 'Birds of a feather flock together.' It was a part of the book that was trying to say people stick together. But as I remember it the phrase is from the poem.
Birds of a feather flock together as do pigs and swine,
Rats and mice will have their choice and so shall I have mine.
It isn't really talking about people sticking together. It is about species that are alike sticking together. Then I looked it up online and discovered some people thinking it was somehow racist. I don't see it at all as racist. Birds generally feel safe with other birds, as do pigs but that mice and rats because of their size difference might not want to share the same space. It is saying we have a choice of who we hang around with. I think it is more about being safe and smart.
The online talk also spoke about people always shortening the poem to fit the need of the situation. I get that. I see things taken out of context all of the time. And I imagine it could be seen as racist if it were used out of context. That is kind of why I believe in looking at the whole picture rather than focusing on a tiny word or phrase out of context.
One more example. There is a photo floating around FB of a couple of young girls, teens, holding rifles. Both are held the proper way which tells me they have been taught how to hold them. The captions talks about kids taking guns to school. On further inspection you can see an adult or two in the back who also appear to be holding guns. Without having read the caption I thought it was of photo taken at a gun event or perhaps a shooting range. Also in the background is an empty stroller. A friend shared the photo with a small small rant stating kids should never be allowed to carry guns in public. I have no idea where the photo originated but I didn't get the assumption the girls were just walking around a park alone or anything. The photo was obviously taken totally our of context.
If you took much of my writing out of context it might possibly be a problem so always let me and anyone else convey the entire message. If you look at some of my photos without knowing the background some could be taken rather poorly. Like the one of my brother and son sort of sitting way too cozy, leg thrown over a lap in a hug. But actuality it is my son goofing around with his uncle. Remembering when the kids were all young. It is much safer not jumping to conclusions. It is much kinder not to share a snippet of a conversation or captioning a photo in a way that is obviously not true.
Saturday, November 2, 2013
Affordable Care Act
Blog post #350 of 365
Affordable my butt!
I want universal healthcare. I do but I want everyone regardless of income to have the ability to see a doctor for free. I think healthcare and education should be available. It is just that simple. And you say how will this be funded well I can imagine a myriad of possibilities but I don't trust the government to figure it out. I mean it closed down for budget reasons and opened with no resolution to the problems. In fact I believe the ACA still isn't funded at all either.
By universal healthcare I mean a yearly visit to have preventative care and renewal or supply of prescriptions for the year. Then if needed visits for problems that arise. If you want more than that then you can buy more private coverage. It seems simple. That is the way most universal care countries work. (At least from what I have heard and read about.)
What Washington did was put a couple of needed lines in a load of crap and pass it off as success. I do agree nobody should be denied for a 'preexisting' condition but that is the only thing I can be happy about in this healthcare mess.
I have a friend who I adore who put a rant on FB. I copied it for the 3 or 4 blog readers who stop by partially because I understand her feelings, I can relate to her predicament and in part because nobody ever comments here and I know if I re-posted to FB my friends with political agendas would have a war much like hers did.
The first part posted Early Monday (10/28) morning went like this!
Dear Mr. President:
I watched your news conferences over the past week about the "Affordable Health Care Act," and I distinctly heard you say the following:
"If you have insurance through your employer now, you will keep that same insurance..."
Oh, really? That is amazing, since we just received our notice of re-enrollment, and the insurance company is different, offers less for more, has a higher annual deductible, and no longer offers an HMO. At all. It's PPO or nothing.
Do you have any idea how much 20% of ANY single hospitalization is? Any idea at all? No, I think not, considering you and Congress are not subject to any of the same obligatory "benefits" that the rest of us are.
YOU
LIED.
AGAIN.
(Oh, why am I not surprised?)
First thing - when Americans were clamoring for Universal Health Care, that's what they wanted. UNIVERSAL HEALTH CARE. (See: France, Canada, the UK, Uruguay, Argentina, etc.) Not this sham of a tax increase disguised as "affordable" health care.
One time - just ONE time - that Jonathan (Special needs son) has to be hospitalized and is denied because we can't fork over $2500 up front, and I will be on your front lawn (which we, the People, own) with my legally-owned and registered weapon of choice. Want the NSA to come after me for posting that? Go ahead. I'm a MOTHER. I can take on the whole lot of you conniving, lying, "entitled" anuses. All at once. You don't scare me. I've given birth. I've given rescue meds for unstoppable seizures. Together, my husband, daughter and I have literally gotten people fired from hospitals. No one is safe from an infuriated mother. Not you, not your cronies, not your deep-pocketed backers.
Just once, I dare you - DARE YOU - to speak the truth and back it up factually.
I appreciate her passion. I know her well enough to know she can't afford a trip to Washington and if she did manage to get there she would do it is a peaceful and yet ever more powerful way than to arm herself and sit on the white house lawn.
After a slew of bickering comments by her, I sure well meaning, friends with a political agenda she posted this:
Well, well, WELL
I knew I'd probably come to FB today to find a brawl going on here - but I'm impressed that there isn't a real knock-down, drag-out fight. My friends are good people who want to express their opinions... I like that.
Whether you agree with me or not, I'm fine with that.
This is how the ACA is affecting US, personally. And I've gone to the website - and since Luis's employer picks up part of the cost, the insurance through his work is still cheaper to obtain than any of the ACA websites offer. (Mind you, you can get cheaper coverage - but the annual deductible can be as high as $13,000.)
I'm a ticked off mom, and do not like to see the government conspiring with the medical professionals and pharmaceutical companies in order to keep offering overpriced services - at a higher price to me.
When I think of all of the new paperwork that will bog down pharmacies, doctors, hospitals, etc. because of this lovely plan, I feel even worse about it. Think of a small-town pharmacy - owned and operated by an individual who has worked his or her whole life to make a success of his or her business while serving the public honorably. How many of them are going to either go broke having to hire extra people just to deal with the paperwork, or going nuts trying to explain why necessary medications now cost the patient more - if that's not counter-productive, I don't know what is.
And Marc, you can always speak your mind to me! I agree - my 9mm wouldn't stand a chance against a "good" weapon. I'll just have to go in armed to the teeth with Angels and words. Sometimes, the simpler things are more powerful.
I totally agree with her. Up to this point it has caused more problems than good. My son's hours were cut way back so the company he worked for wouldn't have to offer him healthcare coverage I know they can't really afford. Now he has multiple jobs and still can't afford the ACA! I know it isn't just my son. I know many Americans are more frustrated than ever. The only people I know who are happy with the ACA are those who can afford to go to the doctor or who have coverage through work that hasn't gone so high it is out of range for their income. In short the well off or upper middle class and above. Oh you thought there were no class differences in the state just drive around a metropolitan city and you'll see upper class neighborhoods and the 'hood.'
Her next post made me realize why we are such good friends. I copied it so maybe you would further understand our friendship.
OKay, rant over.
Back to my usual self.
Not that I'm not still upset - just that Monday is too fine a day to spend the whole time angry. Plus, I have a short attention span - I always end up finding something to giggle about or "awww" over before long...
Oh K, I hope you found your giggles and your awww quickly.
Affordable my butt!
I want universal healthcare. I do but I want everyone regardless of income to have the ability to see a doctor for free. I think healthcare and education should be available. It is just that simple. And you say how will this be funded well I can imagine a myriad of possibilities but I don't trust the government to figure it out. I mean it closed down for budget reasons and opened with no resolution to the problems. In fact I believe the ACA still isn't funded at all either.
By universal healthcare I mean a yearly visit to have preventative care and renewal or supply of prescriptions for the year. Then if needed visits for problems that arise. If you want more than that then you can buy more private coverage. It seems simple. That is the way most universal care countries work. (At least from what I have heard and read about.)
What Washington did was put a couple of needed lines in a load of crap and pass it off as success. I do agree nobody should be denied for a 'preexisting' condition but that is the only thing I can be happy about in this healthcare mess.
I have a friend who I adore who put a rant on FB. I copied it for the 3 or 4 blog readers who stop by partially because I understand her feelings, I can relate to her predicament and in part because nobody ever comments here and I know if I re-posted to FB my friends with political agendas would have a war much like hers did.
The first part posted Early Monday (10/28) morning went like this!
Dear Mr. President:
I watched your news conferences over the past week about the "Affordable Health Care Act," and I distinctly heard you say the following:
"If you have insurance through your employer now, you will keep that same insurance..."
Oh, really? That is amazing, since we just received our notice of re-enrollment, and the insurance company is different, offers less for more, has a higher annual deductible, and no longer offers an HMO. At all. It's PPO or nothing.
Do you have any idea how much 20% of ANY single hospitalization is? Any idea at all? No, I think not, considering you and Congress are not subject to any of the same obligatory "benefits" that the rest of us are.
YOU
LIED.
AGAIN.
(Oh, why am I not surprised?)
First thing - when Americans were clamoring for Universal Health Care, that's what they wanted. UNIVERSAL HEALTH CARE. (See: France, Canada, the UK, Uruguay, Argentina, etc.) Not this sham of a tax increase disguised as "affordable" health care.
One time - just ONE time - that Jonathan (Special needs son) has to be hospitalized and is denied because we can't fork over $2500 up front, and I will be on your front lawn (which we, the People, own) with my legally-owned and registered weapon of choice. Want the NSA to come after me for posting that? Go ahead. I'm a MOTHER. I can take on the whole lot of you conniving, lying, "entitled" anuses. All at once. You don't scare me. I've given birth. I've given rescue meds for unstoppable seizures. Together, my husband, daughter and I have literally gotten people fired from hospitals. No one is safe from an infuriated mother. Not you, not your cronies, not your deep-pocketed backers.
Just once, I dare you - DARE YOU - to speak the truth and back it up factually.
I appreciate her passion. I know her well enough to know she can't afford a trip to Washington and if she did manage to get there she would do it is a peaceful and yet ever more powerful way than to arm herself and sit on the white house lawn.
After a slew of bickering comments by her, I sure well meaning, friends with a political agenda she posted this:
Well, well, WELL
I knew I'd probably come to FB today to find a brawl going on here - but I'm impressed that there isn't a real knock-down, drag-out fight. My friends are good people who want to express their opinions... I like that.
Whether you agree with me or not, I'm fine with that.
This is how the ACA is affecting US, personally. And I've gone to the website - and since Luis's employer picks up part of the cost, the insurance through his work is still cheaper to obtain than any of the ACA websites offer. (Mind you, you can get cheaper coverage - but the annual deductible can be as high as $13,000.)
I'm a ticked off mom, and do not like to see the government conspiring with the medical professionals and pharmaceutical companies in order to keep offering overpriced services - at a higher price to me.
When I think of all of the new paperwork that will bog down pharmacies, doctors, hospitals, etc. because of this lovely plan, I feel even worse about it. Think of a small-town pharmacy - owned and operated by an individual who has worked his or her whole life to make a success of his or her business while serving the public honorably. How many of them are going to either go broke having to hire extra people just to deal with the paperwork, or going nuts trying to explain why necessary medications now cost the patient more - if that's not counter-productive, I don't know what is.
And Marc, you can always speak your mind to me! I agree - my 9mm wouldn't stand a chance against a "good" weapon. I'll just have to go in armed to the teeth with Angels and words. Sometimes, the simpler things are more powerful.
I totally agree with her. Up to this point it has caused more problems than good. My son's hours were cut way back so the company he worked for wouldn't have to offer him healthcare coverage I know they can't really afford. Now he has multiple jobs and still can't afford the ACA! I know it isn't just my son. I know many Americans are more frustrated than ever. The only people I know who are happy with the ACA are those who can afford to go to the doctor or who have coverage through work that hasn't gone so high it is out of range for their income. In short the well off or upper middle class and above. Oh you thought there were no class differences in the state just drive around a metropolitan city and you'll see upper class neighborhoods and the 'hood.'
Her next post made me realize why we are such good friends. I copied it so maybe you would further understand our friendship.
OKay, rant over.
Back to my usual self.
Not that I'm not still upset - just that Monday is too fine a day to spend the whole time angry. Plus, I have a short attention span - I always end up finding something to giggle about or "awww" over before long...
Oh K, I hope you found your giggles and your awww quickly.
Friday, November 1, 2013
Getting Started
Blog post #349 of 365
I have about three projects I need to do. It is weird to know what you need to do but not how to begin or maybe I should say where to start. It is very frustrating.
In one instance it is deep cleaning before the holidays. Do I begin with walls, floors, clutter? Do I go room by room or do I do the same task in every room and make my way through the house? There is just so much to do I'm not sure where to begin.
I have several Christmas projects to do and when I look at the whole it seems like so much. Do I paint a little, cut and sand a little and sew a little or do I get the sewing done, the painting done and the cutting and sanding done? Actually part of me wants the house done before adding to the mess!
The dogs need to be bathed. Do I do one dog a day? One clean dog sleeping next to two dirty and then two relatively clean next to the final dirty dog seems yucky. Do I do all three at once? Having three wet dogs is never fun. I've usually done all three at once but it seems a little harder these days and the yard id totally no conducive to keeping them clean.
UGH! I feel overwhelmed.
Double ugh, I just remembered the medical stuff. Will it never end?
I have about three projects I need to do. It is weird to know what you need to do but not how to begin or maybe I should say where to start. It is very frustrating.
In one instance it is deep cleaning before the holidays. Do I begin with walls, floors, clutter? Do I go room by room or do I do the same task in every room and make my way through the house? There is just so much to do I'm not sure where to begin.
I have several Christmas projects to do and when I look at the whole it seems like so much. Do I paint a little, cut and sand a little and sew a little or do I get the sewing done, the painting done and the cutting and sanding done? Actually part of me wants the house done before adding to the mess!
The dogs need to be bathed. Do I do one dog a day? One clean dog sleeping next to two dirty and then two relatively clean next to the final dirty dog seems yucky. Do I do all three at once? Having three wet dogs is never fun. I've usually done all three at once but it seems a little harder these days and the yard id totally no conducive to keeping them clean.
UGH! I feel overwhelmed.
Double ugh, I just remembered the medical stuff. Will it never end?
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