Simple Steps to More Confidence

Blog Post #10 of 365

Confidence is the absence of insecurities. Even the most outwardly confident people have insecurities. First you need to remember is the only person you need to impress is yourself.  Then take these basic steps.

1. Figure out what is important to you and focus on those things.

2. Ignore the what you can't change (like other people).

3. Change what you can (like your attitude).

4. Surround yourself with good supportive people, but not the kind that will lie to you just because they think it is what you want to hear.

5. Celebrate little successes.

6. Quit dwelling on the negative.

7. Find ways to relieve stress.

If you do all seven steps your confidence will rise. While your confidence rises you will become less insecure.

The truth is at the end of the day all that matters is being able to look in the mirror and laugh at your mistakes, make needed changes and move on. I know easier said than done but you can do it!